I 'get' you.

I don't watch much tv, but did happen to turn on the Biggest Loser the other night when it was on.
As I watched this moment, I found myself crying because Dolvett (the trainer in the video) describes exactly what it is I want to say to anyone who does not think they can lose weight, or overcome their past, or learn to run, or do whatever on earth it is they think they cannot do.
I've been there, and I promise you, you can.